One of the benefits of living far away from our family is that when we are home there is a fair amount of attention paid to getting quality time with everyone. I have to say that one day in the last few weeks has stood out to me. A few days ago my brother drove over to Lansing for a business meeting I had tried to arrange. Unfortunately the meeting ended up falling through but my brother came anyways to spend one last day with me…side note: Newmind is a fantastic company and you should definitely consider hiring them to fill the CIO role of your small to mid-sized company providing the edge you need to compete! Over the past few years the time my brother and I have spent together has mainly been in the context of full, family gatherings. This day together was different, in a great way, because it gave me a chance to see my brother work his business magic, getting to tag along to his appointments as well as the opportunity to do the whole confide in and be confided in thing. Him driving away that night was one of only two times I’ve felt like having a little cry this time around the goodbye tree.

Yesterday we boarded our flight in Detroit and officially began our journey back to Taiwan for year number three. We had a huge portion of our wonderful family there to see us off. It’s great having people that care so much about us and that we care so much about too! Goodbyes are hard though.

We were again on Frontier Airlines out to LA and I again was not impressed. The pilot on the flight from Detroit to Denver seemed to forget that there were passengers in his plane and decided to fly without so much effort given to making large, graceful, unnoticed turns or being that discriminating when it came to the angles of ascension and its opposite. I also felt a few instances of actual fear about the fact that we were flying on September 11th. Up until the flight I hadn’t really thought about it at all but somehow being in the plane with that less then perfect pilot made me a bit antsy. Out to Denver Emily took the window and I sat between her and Terry. He turned out to be a middle-aged guy from West Bloomfield that now split his time between there and San Diego. Terry told me how he’d been to thirty countries because of business. Flying once a month had made him quite the airline expert and Terry explained to me that Northwest and US Airways were the best money can buy. So there you go folks. Now you know. Towards the end of the flight I learned, because his leg was killing him, that he had a bullet in his hip. My immediate thought was to ask him what it was doing there but for some reason I held my tongue and now I’ll never know. The flight from Denver to LA wasn’t nearly as eventful. Our rowmate was a very elegant, middle-aged woman who read and slept the whole time. We did not speak one word to her nor her to us…that is unless Emily snuck in something that I didn’t hear. Another nice thing about that flight was the pilot seemed more of the nice and easy does it variety.

Upon landing our scrumptrulescent (how can Will Ferrell ever be thanked enough) friend Genevieve was extremely prompt in picking us up and delivering us to Pasadena where we are staying for a long weekend before the transpacific flight.

After unloading and declaring our hunger we were taken to In-N-Out Burger. It was excelente! Our friend Kevin showed me how to take a bite of hot pepper (they are complimentary additions to your meal should you ask for them) and then a bite of burger making an oh so good combination of excelentayness in my mouth.

Today we decided a walk around downtown Pasadena would be fun. During the walk Emily and I bought what we believe is our first jointly purchased piece of art. Wally Pacholka sold us a print of one of his photographs at a wonderful discout for which we are extremely grateful, being the poor students we are. Here it is:
Isn’t it beautiful. Actually the right-side is a little cut-off here but you get the idea. By the way it’s not digitally mastered or anything. It’s the real deal and we think it’s pretty cool. I also picked up a copy of J.B. Phillips’ Your God Is Too Small at Cliff’s Books for a dollar and ten cents off the bargain rack…and it is even a hardcover.

Once all the walking was finished we came back to the pad and watched the tail-end of Michigan’s win against Notre Dame and the entirety of the USC vs. Ohio State match-up which I have to say was one heck of a game. I of course sobbed uncontrollably (not really) and hung my head in shame (it’s just so embarrassing) upon seeing the ESPN ticker’s report of the CMU vs. MSU game…woe is me.

And thus ends the day.

 

Well at the beginning of the summer I meant to make a point of doing more blog posts about our summer break than I did last year but alas, September is at hand and I did not make that point a reality. Another thing I wanted to spend time doing this summer was studying Chinese. ‘I’ll have so much time’ I thought. No tests or other classes to distract me from adding a ton of verbs and nouns to my Chinese vocabulary was what I envisioned my summer months to hold beforehand. Now in summer’s twilight I must again say alas. Alas, alas, I am an ass. I have not opened my Chinese book let alone taken steps to actually imprint any Chinese onto my brain.

We are back from our road trip and we had a wonderful time. In total our odometer clicked over 2300 new miles before we arrived back at the house in Lansing. After Florida our trip to Chattanooga, TN was great. I got additional chances to get to know more about members of Emily’s extended family and burrow my way deeper into their clan. My days as the new kid on the block are also numbered as one of Emily’s cousins recently became engaged. Before I know it I’ll be the ‘ole fart member of a whole hoard of ‘in-laws’…that’ll be weird come to think of it.

Owensboro, KY was next on the agenda and it proved to be a very good visit as well. Sadly, Emily’s grandma had been injured and was in an assisted living facility while she recovered while we were in Owensboro. However, this proved to be a blessing in disguise as it provided Emily and I a chance to sit and visit with her grandma, who still was not able to walk, for several hours at a time without the normal bustle of visits with everyone in perfect health. Emily said it was one of the best times she’s ever had with her grandma just getting the chance to talk and talk and also to listen and listen. I really enjoyed it as well. Not only that but we got some great time in with Emily’s grandpa and Aunt Winnie at the house too! Driving around Owensboro I got the impression that its probably a really nice place to live. It just has this feeling of goodness about it.

After that it was back up to Lansing where we are now enjoying a few weeks of work-free visiting before we go back to being Taiwaneers.

 

I’ve been thinking about my second family lately. The Pippers took me in and let me live in their basement in exchange for a little babysitting during my year-long, unpaid, internship with Student Statesmanship Institute (SSI). They welcomed me back to sleep on the hide-a-way several times after that whenever I was in town and let me stay back in my old room for another 6 months right before I was married last year. Without a doubt they are a huge part of my life and I miss them.

Dennis is in fact a big reason why this site exists. He, along with Robbia, gave the taiwaneers.com domain to Emily and I as a wedding gift and has been webmastering and hosting this site on his server since it started. A great guy who I always enjoyed talking with, sitting around the kitchen table sipping beer and making wisecracks while the kids were swimming or bouncing on the trampolene. The camping I got to go along with the Pippers on is still with me. Higgins lake with the empty campground, and Luddington! Great times that I wish I could do over.

Robbia was our connection to summer jobs this past summer which was incredibly wonderful, taking the pressure of finding the dough-re-me for the plane tickets off of our shoulders. I cannot forget how her and Dennis included me in the MSU workers/friends cliqe parties, not to mention her own contributions to the beer sipping and wisecracks around the table. I loved those parties, which seems strange to me now since everyone was either married with kids or the kids themselves, and I was the 20 year-old guy who tagged along with the Pippers. For some reason those parties made me feel like I had a group. I was away from home but it was okay because I had a group. I haven’t even mentioned the food. The mushrooms Robbia can make are out of this world (did I mention Dennis’ homemade beef jerky?)….I’ll leave out the entire list of food that I miss from the Pippers because it would just be too long. The kind of hospitality Robbia and Dennis have is amazing. They basically had me over to dinner about a month into my internship, and towards the end of the meal Robbia asked me when I wanted to move in. A few days later I did and I’m so glad.

Abi, when I first met her was only eight years old. Now she’s a beautiful, talented, young lady who can razzle dazzle you with a piano and can make anything from cookies to dinner. She’s a fantastic young woman who loves God and seems to have limitless potential.

Noah, the former six year old now hockey/baseball/everything player, is someone you better not ‘let win’ when it comes to the basketball hoop in the drive way because now he really will beat you! He is definitely special to me. In my own family I’m the younger brother and now I finally have someone that I’m bigger than!!! He’s a great guy.

Emma, that four year old who was so crabby that first night at dinner, having just woke up from a nap, is now so grown up. She is basically a FIREBALL. I never used to understand it when I was younger and adults would describe certain people as FIREBALLS but now I do and Emma is one of them. She such a cool person and doesn’t let being the youngest in the family get in the way of anything.

If I listed out all the ways the Pippers have given to me (like helping at my wedding, giving me shelter, giving me sage counsel when I was hung up on Emily, taking me camping….) we’d be here forever.

I miss them and wish them a Merry Christmas!

PS- Some of you may wonder if this post reflects a bad relationship with my own family. On the contrary, I believe my incredibly good relationship with my natural family has made creating relationships like this one with the Pippers even better and I doubt my natural family will feel hurt or diminished by this post.

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