A few months back the school had a meeting where all the class leaders (you take all your classes with the same group of people and you elect class leaders) met with Ming Chuan University’s president, Dr. Lee, and MCU’s department heads. I went because I am vice-leader of my class. At that meeting one of the International College graduate students suggested that the same type of thing occur for all IC (International College) students to attend and ask questions, voice concerns, etc.

Today was a culmination of that suggestion. The president was good enough to give us a little over an hour of his time. It was quite an interesting meeting. Anyone that likes studying the effects of globalization and cross-cultural communication would have been feverishly taking notes and making analysis.

Basically one of us students would say something, the president would say something very general like how much he cared about our concerns, etc., then the president’s crony who oversaw the stuff that the question or comment was directed at would respond, and then the president would make another general comment about how important we international students are. It was very interesting to hear the different styles of speaking and questions from the students and then hear the styles of responses. One very interesting thing I observed was my Taiwanese classmate, while nervous, asked his question without sugar-coating and then listened to his response from the president looking him straight in the eye. This was interesting because here I would have expected a Taiwanese student to look down at the middle of the president’s body while the president talked to him showing respect and not “challenging” the President’s authority. My classmate must really be fed up with MCU.

I broke the ice with the first question. I asked if the university could have some sort of standard for IC professors in regards to their English proficiency. The president told a story about how, while he was studying for his Ph. D in the United States he had an Indian and also a Pakistani professor who it was very hard to understand. the IC Dean then talked about how all professors have to take English tests to get into their various Ph. D programs so their English was at least at “that” standard. She said that we students should come to our department directors if professors are seriously lacking English ability. We as a class did go to them a few weeks ago about a professor so we’ll see what happens.

All in all I was pleased by the meeting. I was pleased that MCU’s president was making such a public display of his support for international students and communicating to his staff that they had better take care of us or else. I am displeased however as to his expectations of his staff. I believe he understaffs the IC and therefore the staff that is in place cannot get to our needs, even though they’d like to. The IC staff, from what I can see, are hard workers and want to do a good job but simply because they are forced into that place of always dealing with the urgent, the important is put off.

President Lee definitely does care about us. Under his leadership Ming Chuan University has built its International College, one of the first of its kind in Asia. Now MCU is in the middle of the process for receiving accredidation from the Middle States Commission on Higher Education in the United States. His words today were something like: ‘we want MCU to be an American university in Taiwan.’ It should be noted at this point that that is perceived to be a good thing and a furthermore a prestigious thing. President Lee correctly pointed out that while many universities around Asia have international colleges, Ming Chuan’s is very diverse in terms of student populations with seventy countries represented. Under his leadership MCU has been very aggressive in recruiting students from all corners of the world.

I believe MCU can, as president Lee said they would, become very reknowned in Asia and throughout the world for a unique, international, college experience. MCU can also miss that mark however. President Lee must now, without dropping recruitment of students completely, shift priorities to building infrastructure, and support mechanisms so that faculty will want to stay on a long-term basis, as well as provide students a college experience that engenders endearment and life-long support for MCU. I fear that if this shift does not happen within the next five years his vision will crumble and other Asian universities will catch up to and pass Ming Chuan in the international student niche.

 

Even though Christmas isn’t a holiday here and we both had classes as usual we still felt it all around us. Emily decorated our house beautifully and we stumbled across a baptist church out to eat the other night that was decorated to the nines for Christmas and had a Christmas Eve service being loud-speakered along the sidewalk. It was wonderful!!!

Emily and I are doing our celebrations in shifts. Christmas Eve we opened presents, Christmas (today) we’ll go to a friends party, tomorrow (Boxing Day…shout out to Darren) we’ll make ourselves a wonderful Christmas meal, and Saturday we’ll have friends over for our own party.

Darren was kind enough to give me some extremely arromatic Blue Mountain coffee that I am very excited about. Emily gave me some very stylish shirts, a bicycle computer thingy and bicycle gloves, and also a few gadgets for my computer!!!! You’ll have to ask Emily about what she got.

I feel so full emotionally. Emily’s love of Christmas is starting to rub off on me. Its wonderful how God is knitting both of us together as a new family.

Thank you to all of you that sent notes, emails, text-messages, skyping, and everything. Being remembered and loved feels fantastic.

We love and miss you all.

 

I’ve been thinking about my second family lately. The Pippers took me in and let me live in their basement in exchange for a little babysitting during my year-long, unpaid, internship with Student Statesmanship Institute (SSI). They welcomed me back to sleep on the hide-a-way several times after that whenever I was in town and let me stay back in my old room for another 6 months right before I was married last year. Without a doubt they are a huge part of my life and I miss them.

Dennis is in fact a big reason why this site exists. He, along with Robbia, gave the taiwaneers.com domain to Emily and I as a wedding gift and has been webmastering and hosting this site on his server since it started. A great guy who I always enjoyed talking with, sitting around the kitchen table sipping beer and making wisecracks while the kids were swimming or bouncing on the trampolene. The camping I got to go along with the Pippers on is still with me. Higgins lake with the empty campground, and Luddington! Great times that I wish I could do over.

Robbia was our connection to summer jobs this past summer which was incredibly wonderful, taking the pressure of finding the dough-re-me for the plane tickets off of our shoulders. I cannot forget how her and Dennis included me in the MSU workers/friends cliqe parties, not to mention her own contributions to the beer sipping and wisecracks around the table. I loved those parties, which seems strange to me now since everyone was either married with kids or the kids themselves, and I was the 20 year-old guy who tagged along with the Pippers. For some reason those parties made me feel like I had a group. I was away from home but it was okay because I had a group. I haven’t even mentioned the food. The mushrooms Robbia can make are out of this world (did I mention Dennis’ homemade beef jerky?)….I’ll leave out the entire list of food that I miss from the Pippers because it would just be too long. The kind of hospitality Robbia and Dennis have is amazing. They basically had me over to dinner about a month into my internship, and towards the end of the meal Robbia asked me when I wanted to move in. A few days later I did and I’m so glad.

Abi, when I first met her was only eight years old. Now she’s a beautiful, talented, young lady who can razzle dazzle you with a piano and can make anything from cookies to dinner. She’s a fantastic young woman who loves God and seems to have limitless potential.

Noah, the former six year old now hockey/baseball/everything player, is someone you better not ‘let win’ when it comes to the basketball hoop in the drive way because now he really will beat you! He is definitely special to me. In my own family I’m the younger brother and now I finally have someone that I’m bigger than!!! He’s a great guy.

Emma, that four year old who was so crabby that first night at dinner, having just woke up from a nap, is now so grown up. She is basically a FIREBALL. I never used to understand it when I was younger and adults would describe certain people as FIREBALLS but now I do and Emma is one of them. She such a cool person and doesn’t let being the youngest in the family get in the way of anything.

If I listed out all the ways the Pippers have given to me (like helping at my wedding, giving me shelter, giving me sage counsel when I was hung up on Emily, taking me camping….) we’d be here forever.

I miss them and wish them a Merry Christmas!

PS- Some of you may wonder if this post reflects a bad relationship with my own family. On the contrary, I believe my incredibly good relationship with my natural family has made creating relationships like this one with the Pippers even better and I doubt my natural family will feel hurt or diminished by this post.

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