As you may have picked up from a few previous posts, I have been holding two teaching jobs since November. Each is at a “Cram School,” where students go after their normal school hours to get information crammed into them. This could be math, science, English…you name it. Both of mine were English Cram Schools. I’ve been loving the jobs SO much and to my perception, they were loving me back. Last week however, I got to experience my first Taiwanese “canning.” Yep, I got fired. Or let go… The thing is I’m still not exactly sure how to respond to the situation.

Basically, I’ve been teaching at this school for  almost three months. The kids love me, the other teachers were beginning to be my friends, and the owners kept trying to get me to work there three days instead of just the one. This is an indication of job security, no? Imagine my surprise when, after the normal, cheerful “See you next week!” and arrival home, I opened up my salary envelope to discover an unusual note. It read “Sorry, Mark [another teacher] can take your classes so you don’t need to come back again. Thank you!” I couldn’t believe it, and for awhile tried to extract some other meaning from the words…sometimes translation into another language can produce funny things. Just to make sure I understood correctly, I called the school owner and asked her about it. She sounded embarrassed and answered my questions with “Well, Mark can teach three days a week so we don’t need you any more.” Still totally blown away and not sure if she was being mean or nice, I said thanks and told her I’d substitute teach anytime if I was needed. And that was it.

But THEN, the next week, I ran into this same Mark – who happened to be on his way to teach that very moment. Turns out he didn’t know about my situation, and they had never even asked him if he could take over my teaching slots. Further, he was going to tell them that day that he wouldn’t be working there the next semester. Ironic, eh?

Suffice it to say, I’m still laughing and bewildered at the whole thing. If this was the US, I would have drilled this lady to give me a reason for being let go. But because I know nothing about the polite Taiwanese way to handle situations like this, what else can I do but be nice and laugh about it?

And now comes the good part: God’s faithfulness. Last Sunday, I was approached about a private tutoring job for a college student. This week it was confirmed, and we had our first session yesterday. It just so happens that our time together falls during the time of my previously-held teaching job, is 15 minutes closer to home, and pays almost the same amount of money! Thank you GOD!!! Further, I think I might come to love private tutoring even more than a classroom setting. I’ve been getting so excited about what I can teach, what we can work on together, his success in this language…I’m allowed to care so much more about this one student than my 100+ others. Wonderful!

That concludes the story of my first Taiwanese canning. Laugh with me!

 

Well MCU posted my grades for the first semester……….drum roll please…….I passed Calculus!!!!!

From what I’ve heard a lot of professors here in Taiwan grade on a curve. Now this is only talk and I can’t substantiate it but apparently a lot of university’s encourage the bell curve so that, in every class, at least a few students fail. That way students will have to retake classes spending more of their money on tuition.

I’ve begun my month long winter break. I’ve played a little basketball with some friends, started looking for tutoring jobs to earn a little extra cash, and taking it easy. I’ve been reading the Bourne Identity and I have to say its pretty good. The movie definitely took some large liberties in changing the story and characters. The other day I rode the scooter to another university about a half hour from our home to ask about transferring. I’ve been researching other universities online here in Taiwan that have English taught degree programs and this one was one of them. Hopefully I’ll get a chance to visit another university near us later on this week.

Emily is still in school until the end of this week. Its her birthday this Sunday!!! My sister, Megan, is in town as well and we’ve been having a great time spending time with her.

My Chinese is improving. I still can read and write nothing and I mean nothing. However my comprehension and speaking is improving. Its slow and no where near Emily’s ability (she’s incredible, you should hear her and everyone says her writing is beautiful) but I’m definitely better than when we arrived five months ago. Speaking of which, the end of January marks the halfway point of our first school year here. In five more months we’ll be on a plane headed to the U.S. and A!

Lately I’ve been reading in Acts. The early church is so inspiring to me! The living daily for Christ exemplified in their actions is something I desperately want. I want to be able to live so unattached to material possessions and communally “giving to every man as he has need.” Lately I’ve been convicted that I’m wrapped up in myself and my desires and my life and my goals. I want freedom from me, to live completely and wholly for The Father. In Him, through Him, and with Him.

 

Each January 23rd marks another year for this fabulous man. Yesterday, we celebrated the entrance into his 24th year with a yummy meal and company. Megan is in Taoyuan for two weeks, helping out with a children’s camp, so she was a part of the festivities!

I met Michael during our transition into adulthood, and love knowing that we’ll be together through all of life’s further transitions. Here are just a few snapshots from the past 4 or 5 years…

Poufy Hair

2003 – Just after we started working together at SSI. One day while out grabbing lunch together, we walked into Subway, where the woman asked “How may I help you ladies?” Though all that hair is quite an accomplishment, he got a haircut.

Shaggy Speech

The “cool man” haircut. He looked very suave. This is 2004.

Mohawk self protrait

Summer 2005 – the famed Mohawk!!! oooohhhh it was so cool.

Thanksgiving 2005

Thanksgiving 2005, in California. He came to visit me!!Missy’s wedding

Being crazy in 2006, at our friend’s wedding. Notice how his hair keeps changing?

Engagement night

Engagement night, January 2007. Yippee!!!

Katie’s Wedding

Summer 2007, the week before we tied the knot. Look how handsome and happy he is…

wedding

And now, a married man. A good husband, provider and friend. The best one could ask for!

Christmas

The most recent look for Mr. Michael Jefferies: shaggadelic, baby.

Please join me in acknowledging this one life that God has created… a life with purpose and meaning, destined and designed to do great things for God.

We love you Michael and wish you all the joy this world has to offer! Happy Birthday!!!

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